👥 Social Relationships – Southern Islamic Institute

Humans are social beings, created to live in families, communities, and nations. Islam offers clear guidance on how to build, maintain, and repair relationships in a way that reflects divine mercy, justice, and mutual responsibility.

This course explores the ethics, rights, and emotional depth of social relationships in Islam—from friendships and family ties to neighborly conduct and online interaction. It teaches learners how to navigate love, disagreement, trust, and support within the framework of Islamic teachings and emotional intelligence.

Social relationships are not distractions from our faith—they are a means of worship, an opportunity to reflect Allah’s names in how we treat others.

Key Themes:

Building and maintaining healthy relationships
The rights of others in Islam (huqooq al-‘ibad)
Social etiquette, trust, and repair
Conflict resolution and forgiveness
Emotional boundaries and presence
Community care, loyalty, and leadership

Level 1: Relationships Are a Reflection of Faith

Introduction:

In Islam, relationships aren’t just personal—they’re spiritual. The way we treat people reflects the state of our heart and the strength of our connection to Allah. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said, “None of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.” This teaches us that faith and relationship are intertwined.

This level introduces the foundational idea that every interaction—whether with family, friends, neighbors, or strangers—is a form of worship. From saying salaam to forgiving mistakes, Islam calls us to make our relationships a living expression of iman, taqwa, and mercy.

By the end of this level, students will understand that healthy, sincere, and just relationships are not optional—they’re proof of our character and our belief.

Module 1: The Spiritual Nature of Human Connection

Unit 1: Why Relationships Matter in Islam
- Lesson 1: Islam is a deen of connection, not isolation
- Lesson 2: “None of you believes until he loves for his brother…”
- Lesson 3: Our dealings with people are part of our deen
Unit 2: Worship Through Relationships
- Lesson 1: Smiling, kindness, and forgiveness as acts of worship
- Lesson 2: Good character is the heaviest on the scale
- Lesson 3: Intentions behind how we treat others
Unit 3: Allah Sees How We Treat His Creation
- Lesson 1: The oppressed will speak before Allah
- Lesson 2: The importance of Huqooq al-‘Ibad (rights of people)
- Lesson 3: You can’t pray your way out of harming others
Unit 4: The Prophet’s ﷺ Model of Relationship
- Lesson 1: His kindness to all—even enemies
- Lesson 2: His presence in relationships
- Lesson 3: Making everyone feel valued
Unit 5: The Balance Between Self and Society
- Lesson 1: Islam values both solitude and service
- Lesson 2: Your personal growth is not disconnected from others
- Lesson 3: Healthy relationships are part of emotional and spiritual wellness

Module 2: Relationships and the Heart

Unit 1: Emotional Health in Connection
- Lesson 1: How the heart is affected by our relationships
- Lesson 2: Love, jealousy, trust, and disappointment in Islam
- Lesson 3: Keeping your heart soft and sincere
Unit 2: Intention and Sincerity in Relationships
- Lesson 1: Doing things for Allah, not recognition
- Lesson 2: Loving someone for the sake of Allah
- Lesson 3: When sincerity is tested in relationships
Unit 3: The Role of Taqwa in Social Life
- Lesson 1: Being mindful of Allah in our treatment of others
- Lesson 2: Private conversations and the unseen observer
- Lesson 3: Conscious communication
Unit 4: Loving for the Sake of Allah
- Lesson 1: The beauty of brotherhood and sisterhood in Islam
- Lesson 2: Rewards for those who love sincerely
- Lesson 3: Reunited under Allah’s shade
Unit 5: Forgiveness and Clean Hearts
- Lesson 1: Letting go of grudges as an act of worship
- Lesson 2: The one who forgives is the stronger one
- Lesson 3: A clean heart leads to healthy relationships

Module 3: Building Relationships With Intention

Unit 1: Setting a Foundation With People
- Lesson 1: Starting relationships with good assumptions
- Lesson 2: Clarifying intentions and limits early
- Lesson 3: Being a trustworthy and dependable person
Unit 2: Building Relationships With Allah in Mind
- Lesson 1: Every bond is a test and a trust
- Lesson 2: Making du’a for your relationships
- Lesson 3: Growing spiritually through connection
Unit 3: Red Flags and Realistic Expectations
- Lesson 1: When connection becomes control
- Lesson 2: Balancing hope and honesty
- Lesson 3: What Islam teaches about toxic behavior
Unit 4: Gratitude and Loyalty in Relationships
- Lesson 1: “Whoever is not grateful to people…”
- Lesson 2: Remembering those who helped you
- Lesson 3: Faithfulness as a spiritual quality
Unit 5: Being a Person of Benefit
- Lesson 1: “The most beloved people to Allah are those most beneficial…”
- Lesson 2: Helping others emotionally, spiritually, practically
- Lesson 3: Legacy through kindness

Module 4: The Social Rights of Others

Unit 1: Rights in Islam Are Sacred
- Lesson 1: You’re accountable for how you treat people
- Lesson 2: The gravity of broken rights on the Day of Judgment
- Lesson 3: Seeking forgiveness from those we’ve harmed
Unit 2: Six Rights Every Muslim Has Over Another
- Lesson 1: The hadith of mutual rights
- Lesson 2: Salaam, advice, invitation, sneezing, sickness, and death
- Lesson 3: Making these rights a habit
Unit 3: Upholding People’s Dignity
- Lesson 1: Not humiliating, mocking, or gossiping
- Lesson 2: Respecting people’s privacy and personal space
- Lesson 3: Upholding honor in public and private
Unit 4: Not Spying, Backbiting, or Assuming the Worst
- Lesson 1: Surah Hujurat’s guidance on social ethics
- Lesson 2: Mindful speech and thought
- Lesson 3: Replacing judgment with sincere concern
Unit 5: Responding to Mistreatment With Dignity
- Lesson 1: “Repel evil with that which is better…”
- Lesson 2: Holding emotional boundaries with mercy
- Lesson 3: Walking away with dignity and du’a

Module 5: Building a Relationship With the Ummah

Unit 1: Brotherhood and Sisterhood in Faith
- Lesson 1: We are one body—when one part hurts, all feel it
- Lesson 2: Caring across difference and distance
- Lesson 3: Making space for all types of Muslims
Unit 2: The Power of Community Bonds
- Lesson 1: Being involved in your local ummah
- Lesson 2: The masjid as your extended home
- Lesson 3: Checking in on your neighbors and peers
Unit 3: Welcoming and Including Others
- Lesson 1: Especially converts, newcomers, the overlooked
- Lesson 2: Smiling and introducing yourself
- Lesson 3: Making space for people to belong
Unit 4: Making Du’a for the Ummah
- Lesson 1: Caring about the oppressed and the hurting
- Lesson 2: Collective du’a as a form of connection
- Lesson 3: Praying for the unseen—Muslims and non-Muslims alike
Unit 5: Social Compassion as a Reflection of Tawheed
- Lesson 1: Treating people well because they belong to Allah
- Lesson 2: Reflecting Allah’s names in how we interact
- Lesson 3: Tawheed in belief and in behavior

Level 2: Rights, Roles, and Responsibilities

Introduction:

In Islam, relationships come with clear guidelines—not just emotional bonds, but sacred responsibilities. Every person you interact with has rights over you, and fulfilling those rights is part of your faith.

This level teaches students how Islam structures social relationships through defined roles and duties: parents to children, neighbors to neighbors, spouses to one another, and Muslims to fellow believers. These aren’t cultural traditions—they are commands from Allah that reflect justice, mercy, and balance.

By the end of this level, students will be equipped to navigate relationships not just with good intentions, but with a clear understanding of what Allah expects from us in each role we hold.

Module 1: The Concept of Social Rights in Islam

Unit 1: Huqooq al-‘Ibad – Rights of the People
- Lesson 1: Worship isn’t complete without fulfilling others’ rights
- Lesson 2: What counts as a right in Islam
- Lesson 3: Violating people’s rights can cancel out good deeds
Unit 2: Responsibilities Are Acts of Worship
- Lesson 1: Serving others for the sake of Allah
- Lesson 2: No task is “small” when done with sincerity
- Lesson 3: From chores to emotional support—intention matters
Unit 3: Roles Are Assigned by Allah
- Lesson 1: We’re not random—we have duties in every connection
- Lesson 2: Knowing when you’re a leader and when you’re a follower
- Lesson 3: Every role comes with a trust (amanah)
Unit 4: Balance Between Rights and Boundaries
- Lesson 1: You are not responsible for what Allah didn’t ask of you
- Lesson 2: Mutual responsibility, not one-sided giving
- Lesson 3: Islam protects both parties in a relationship
Unit 5: Accountability on the Day of Judgment
- Lesson 1: Allah will ask about how we treated people
- Lesson 2: Rights not repaid will be taken from your good deeds
- Lesson 3: Fulfilling others’ rights protects your akhirah

Module 2: Parent-Child Relationships

Unit 1: Rights of Parents
- Lesson 1: Kindness and respect even when they are wrong
- Lesson 2: When obedience ends and mercy continues
- Lesson 3: The importance of prayer and service to parents
Unit 2: Rights of Children
- Lesson 1: Naming, nurturing, and loving children with justice
- Lesson 2: Educating in deen, adab, and emotional safety
- Lesson 3: Not favoring one child over another
Unit 3: Role of the Parent in Islam
- Lesson 1: Raising children with love and balance
- Lesson 2: Boundaries without cruelty
- Lesson 3: Mercy as the parenting sunnah
Unit 4: Role of the Child in Islam
- Lesson 1: Obedience with respect and reason
- Lesson 2: Honoring parents through words and action
- Lesson 3: Du’a, patience, and presence
Unit 5: Healing Difficult Parent-Child Bonds
- Lesson 1: When family is hard—what Islam teaches
- Lesson 2: Repairing ties without enabling harm
- Lesson 3: Boundaries and forgiveness together

Module 3: Marital Roles and Rights

Unit 1: Mutual Rights in Marriage
- Lesson 1: Marriage as a mercy, not a power struggle
- Lesson 2: Emotional and physical rights in Islam
- Lesson 3: Communication and companionship as part of faith
Unit 2: The Role of the Husband
- Lesson 1: Responsibility, protection, and leadership with love
- Lesson 2: The Prophet’s ﷺ behavior as a model
- Lesson 3: Being gentle and supportive
Unit 3: The Role of the Wife
- Lesson 1: Responsibility, support, and presence
- Lesson 2: Respecting one another’s dignity
- Lesson 3: Being a source of comfort and strength
Unit 4: Islamically Navigating Marital Strain
- Lesson 1: How to argue with adab
- Lesson 2: When to seek help
- Lesson 3: Making du’a for your spouse
Unit 5: Mercy Over Entitlement
- Lesson 1: Going beyond rights to give from the heart
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ always gave more than he took
- Lesson 3: Building a marriage based on rahmah

Module 4: Sibling and Extended Family Relations

Unit 1: Rights Between Siblings
- Lesson 1: Love, fairness, and loyalty
- Lesson 2: Resolving sibling tension Islamically
- Lesson 3: Staying connected as adults
Unit 2: The Role of the Older Sibling
- Lesson 1: Leadership through kindness
- Lesson 2: Setting an example, not controlling
- Lesson 3: Being a protector, not a parent
Unit 3: Aunts, Uncles, and Grandparents
- Lesson 1: Honoring the older generation
- Lesson 2: Visiting and checking in regularly
- Lesson 3: Being their connection to the family’s future
Unit 4: Cousins and Distant Relatives
- Lesson 1: Recognizing the extended family bond
- Lesson 2: Celebrating and grieving together
- Lesson 3: Staying in touch even when far away
Unit 5: Handling Family Disputes
- Lesson 1: Being the one who initiates peace
- Lesson 2: Not taking sides blindly
- Lesson 3: Keeping your heart clean during tension

Module 5: Friendships and Social Circles

Unit 1: Rights of Friends in Islam
- Lesson 1: Loyalty, honesty, and presence
- Lesson 2: Defending their honor in their absence
- Lesson 3: Being a source of goodness, not gossip
Unit 2: Choosing Good Companions
- Lesson 1: “You are upon the religion of your friend…”
- Lesson 2: Knowing when to hold on or let go
- Lesson 3: When friendships grow or fade with grace
Unit 3: The Role of a True Friend
- Lesson 1: Sincere du’a, sincere advice
- Lesson 2: Visiting in hardship, cheering in joy
- Lesson 3: Friendship as a form of worship
Unit 4: Rights of Acquaintances and Classmates
- Lesson 1: Islam isn’t just for close friends
- Lesson 2: Being fair, kind, and non-cliqueish
- Lesson 3: Upholding dignity in all settings
Unit 5: Ending Friendships With Integrity
- Lesson 1: When a relationship becomes harmful
- Lesson 2: Leaving with peace, not punishment
- Lesson 3: Making du’a for their good, even from afar

Module 6: Society and the Broader Ummah

Unit 1: Rights of Neighbors
- Lesson 1: The Prophet ﷺ nearly made them inheritors
- Lesson 2: Checking on their well-being
- Lesson 3: Avoiding harm and offering kindness
Unit 2: The Role of the Believer in Society
- Lesson 1: You represent Islam wherever you go
- Lesson 2: Being a source of peace and mercy
- Lesson 3: Upholding justice in speech and action
Unit 3: Responsibilities to the Oppressed
- Lesson 1: Advocacy, du’a, and material support
- Lesson 2: Amplifying their voices
- Lesson 3: Standing for truth with wisdom
Unit 4: Unity Without Uniformity
- Lesson 1: Respecting valid differences of opinion
- Lesson 2: Avoiding division over minor issues
- Lesson 3: Unity rooted in mutual mercy
Unit 5: Reconnecting to Our Collective Duty
- Lesson 1: We rise and fall as an ummah
- Lesson 2: Each person has a role to play
- Lesson 3: Rebuilding the ummah one relationship at a time

Level 3: Trust, Loyalty, and Keeping Your Word

Introduction:

Trust is the foundation of every meaningful relationship. In Islam, being trustworthy (ameen) is not just a good trait—it is a defining quality of a true believer, and one of the most praised traits of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.

This level teaches students how to build, protect, and repair trust in their relationships. It covers honesty, loyalty, confidentiality, promise-keeping, and consistency—qualities that make us reliable and respected in the sight of Allah and others.

By the end of this level, students will understand that trust is a sacred trust (amanah)—and keeping it is part of both good character and sound faith.

Module 1: The Importance of Trust in Islam

Unit 1: Trust as a Cornerstone of Faith
- Lesson 1: The Prophet ﷺ was known as Al-Ameen
- Lesson 2: Trustworthiness is a sign of true belief
- Lesson 3: Betrayal is a mark of hypocrisy
Unit 2: Amanah – Sacred Trusts
- Lesson 1: Every responsibility is a trust from Allah
- Lesson 2: Emotional, financial, and spiritual amanah
- Lesson 3: Accountability for every trust
Unit 3: The Ripple Effect of Broken Trust
- Lesson 1: Broken trust harms relationships and community
- Lesson 2: Rebuilding trust takes time and sincerity
- Lesson 3: Owning mistakes and seeking forgiveness
Unit 4: Trust in Personal Relationships
- Lesson 1: Trust in marriage, friendships, and family
- Lesson 2: Showing reliability through consistency
- Lesson 3: Trust is built slowly and lost quickly
Unit 5: Trust and the Hereafter
- Lesson 1: Trust is judged on the Day of Judgment
- Lesson 2: “Give the trusts to those who deserve them”
- Lesson 3: Du’a for being a trustworthy soul

Module 2: Honesty in Word and Deed

Unit 1: Truthfulness as a Mark of Character
- Lesson 1: “Speak the truth even if it is against yourself”
- Lesson 2: Being honest with words, actions, and intentions
- Lesson 3: The Prophet ﷺ never lied—not even jokingly
Unit 2: The Dangers of Lying
- Lesson 1: Lying leads to sin, then Hellfire
- Lesson 2: Lying to gain advantage or avoid responsibility
- Lesson 3: White lies vs. harmful deception
Unit 3: Situations Where Truth Is Still Gentle
- Lesson 1: Speaking the truth with wisdom and adab
- Lesson 2: When silence is better than harsh truth
- Lesson 3: Truth with mercy heals, not harms
Unit 4: Being Honest With Yourself
- Lesson 1: Recognizing your own flaws
- Lesson 2: Avoiding self-deception and arrogance
- Lesson 3: Making du’a for truthfulness in the heart
Unit 5: Telling the Truth When It’s Difficult
- Lesson 1: Courage in uncomfortable moments
- Lesson 2: Being known for honesty
- Lesson 3: “If you always speak the truth, you never need to remember what you said”

Module 3: Loyalty and Reliability

Unit 1: Loyalty as a Prophetic Trait
- Lesson 1: The Prophet ﷺ honored his bonds for life
- Lesson 2: Remaining committed through thick and thin
- Lesson 3: Trusting others and being trustworthy
Unit 2: Emotional Loyalty
- Lesson 1: Defending people when they’re not around
- Lesson 2: Not turning against someone after conflict
- Lesson 3: Being a safe presence for others
Unit 3: Showing Up Consistently
- Lesson 1: Reliability builds emotional trust
- Lesson 2: Keeping promises, even small ones
- Lesson 3: “You can count on me” as a habit
Unit 4: Loyalty in Friendships and Family
- Lesson 1: Not sharing secrets or private pain
- Lesson 2: Speaking well of others even after parting
- Lesson 3: Loving sincerely and letting go gently
Unit 5: Trusting Others With Boundaries
- Lesson 1: Giving trust wisely
- Lesson 2: Letting go of suspicion without being naïve
- Lesson 3: Trust is earned, not assumed

Module 4: Keeping Your Word

Unit 1: Promises in the Qur’an and Sunnah
- Lesson 1: “Fulfill your promises, for the promise will be asked about”
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ never broke his word
- Lesson 3: Saying “InshaAllah” sincerely
Unit 2: Making Promises Thoughtfully
- Lesson 1: Don’t overpromise or commit carelessly
- Lesson 2: Promises are not for pleasing people
- Lesson 3: Integrity over popularity
Unit 3: Apologizing for Broken Promises
- Lesson 1: Taking responsibility without excuses
- Lesson 2: Making it right whenever possible
- Lesson 3: Du’a and repair
Unit 4: Trust in Business and Financial Deals
- Lesson 1: Fairness in contracts and sales
- Lesson 2: Delivering what you said you would
- Lesson 3: Reputation is part of rizq
Unit 5: Trust in Community Roles
- Lesson 1: If you accept a task, fulfill it
- Lesson 2: Serving with excellence and care
- Lesson 3: Being known as reliable in the Ummah

Module 5: Confidentiality and Keeping Secrets

Unit 1: The Trust of Private Conversation
- Lesson 1: “A conversation between you is a trust”
- Lesson 2: When to hold and when to release information
- Lesson 3: Telling others’ stories without consent is betrayal
Unit 2: The Prophet’s ﷺ Practice of Discretion
- Lesson 1: Never exposing someone’s flaws
- Lesson 2: Protecting honor even in disagreement
- Lesson 3: Knowing when silence is safer
Unit 3: Confidentiality in Friendships
- Lesson 1: Don’t be a vault with holes
- Lesson 2: Sharing without seeking attention
- Lesson 3: Gaining trust by being trustworthy
Unit 4: When Secrets Are Dangerous
- Lesson 1: Safety overrides secrecy
- Lesson 2: How to handle concerns about harm
- Lesson 3: Balancing care and caution
Unit 5: The Weight of What You Know
- Lesson 1: Knowledge is a test
- Lesson 2: Protecting others’ dignity through silence
- Lesson 3: Being someone people trust with their pain

Module 6: Repairing Trust and Rebuilding Bonds

Unit 1: When Trust Is Broken
- Lesson 1: Acknowledge and apologize sincerely
- Lesson 2: Avoid blaming or minimizing
- Lesson 3: Time and action rebuild trust
Unit 2: Forgiveness and Second Chances
- Lesson 1: Forgiveness is not forgetting—it’s choosing peace
- Lesson 2: When to give someone another chance
- Lesson 3: Trust is earned again through consistency
Unit 3: Setting Boundaries After Betrayal
- Lesson 1: You can forgive and still set limits
- Lesson 2: Safety and emotional balance matter
- Lesson 3: The Prophet ﷺ forgave, but stayed wise
Unit 4: Making Du’a for Trust to Return
- Lesson 1: Asking Allah to soften hearts
- Lesson 2: Du’a for healing relational wounds
- Lesson 3: Praying for others’ growth
Unit 5: Becoming a Person People Trust Again
- Lesson 1: Humility and accountability
- Lesson 2: Consistent follow-through
- Lesson 3: Character speaks louder than promises

Level 4: Friendship in Islam

Introduction:

Friendship in Islam is more than companionship—it’s a bond that strengthens your faith, uplifts your character, and brings you closer to Allah. The Prophet ﷺ said, “A person is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.”

This level explores the qualities of a righteous friend, the rights and responsibilities within friendship, and how to choose, maintain, and sometimes let go of friendships with adab. Islam teaches us that the best friends are those who remind us of Allah, help us grow, and remain loyal in both presence and absence.

By the end of this level, students will understand that friendships in Islam are not casual—they are spiritual investmentsthat echo into the Hereafter.

Module 1: The Foundation of Islamic Friendship

Unit 1: The Purpose of Friendship in Islam
- Lesson 1: Companionship that nourishes the soul
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ and his companions as the ideal model
- Lesson 3: Friendship as an act of worship
Unit 2: Choosing the Right Friends
- Lesson 1: “A person is upon the religion of his close friend…”
- Lesson 2: The impact of environment on your character
- Lesson 3: Red flags and trustworthy signs
Unit 3: Sincerity in Friendship
- Lesson 1: Loving for the sake of Allah
- Lesson 2: Hidden intentions and self-awareness
- Lesson 3: Checking your heart before you connect
Unit 4: The Power of Influence
- Lesson 1: Friends affect your habits and worldview
- Lesson 2: Being the positive influence
- Lesson 3: Emotional accountability in companionship
Unit 5: Reward for Righteous Friendship
- Lesson 1: Friends gathered under Allah’s shade
- Lesson 2: Du’a for one another is rewarded
- Lesson 3: Love that lasts into the Hereafter

Module 2: The Rights of a Friend

Unit 1: Emotional Availability
- Lesson 1: Listening with sincerity
- Lesson 2: Being there during joy and hardship
- Lesson 3: Supporting without overstepping
Unit 2: Confidentiality and Trust
- Lesson 1: Protecting your friend’s secrets
- Lesson 2: What’s shared in confidence stays in confidence
- Lesson 3: When disclosure becomes betrayal
Unit 3: Loyalty in Presence and Absence
- Lesson 1: Defending your friend’s reputation
- Lesson 2: Speaking well behind their back
- Lesson 3: Refraining from jealousy and mockery
Unit 4: Offering Sincere Advice
- Lesson 1: “Religion is sincere advice”
- Lesson 2: Giving advice with gentleness and love
- Lesson 3: Accepting advice without ego
Unit 5: Forgiveness and Grace in Friendship
- Lesson 1: Mistakes will happen—how will you respond?
- Lesson 2: Repairing emotional slips
- Lesson 3: Mercy strengthens the bond

Module 3: Growing Through Friendship

Unit 1: Helping Each Other Grow Spiritually
- Lesson 1: Encouraging salah, du’a, and Qur’an
- Lesson 2: Attending Islamic events together
- Lesson 3: Reminders as gifts, not judgments
Unit 2: Emotional Honesty and Boundaries
- Lesson 1: Communicating feelings and needs clearly
- Lesson 2: Respecting differences and space
- Lesson 3: Growing without growing apart
Unit 3: Celebrating Joys Together
- Lesson 1: Attending milestones and victories
- Lesson 2: Making du’a during happy moments
- Lesson 3: Avoiding envy or downplaying their joy
Unit 4: Supporting Through Hardship
- Lesson 1: When they’re grieving or struggling
- Lesson 2: Being a calm and hopeful presence
- Lesson 3: Showing up without being overwhelming
Unit 5: Reassessing and Renewing Friendships
- Lesson 1: When the friendship needs repair
- Lesson 2: Du’a for your friends’ growth
- Lesson 3: Knowing when to rekindle or release

Module 4: Friendship Etiquette and Boundaries

Unit 1: Respecting Time and Space
- Lesson 1: Giving room to breathe
- Lesson 2: Avoiding emotional over-dependence
- Lesson 3: Balancing presence and privacy
Unit 2: Healthy Communication
- Lesson 1: Avoiding sarcasm, passive aggression, or ghosting
- Lesson 2: Speaking with adab even when upset
- Lesson 3: Apologizing and reconciling with ihsan
Unit 3: Social Media Friendships
- Lesson 1: Online connection with Islamic boundaries
- Lesson 2: Being sincere, not performative
- Lesson 3: Avoiding envy and comparison online
Unit 4: Friendships Between Genders
- Lesson 1: Islam’s limits and spiritual wisdom
- Lesson 2: Lowering the gaze and protecting the heart
- Lesson 3: Keeping friendships halal and appropriate
Unit 5: Knowing When a Friendship Is Unhealthy
- Lesson 1: Signs of emotional manipulation
- Lesson 2: Boundaries with toxic behavior
- Lesson 3: Leaving with du’a and dignity

Module 5: Friendship Across Seasons of Life

Unit 1: Childhood and Youth Friendships
- Lesson 1: Learning social values early
- Lesson 2: Helping youth build strong bonds
- Lesson 3: Teaching adab through friendships
Unit 2: College and Young Adult Bonds
- Lesson 1: Navigating changing identities
- Lesson 2: Peer pressure and faith
- Lesson 3: Choosing companions wisely in transition
Unit 3: Friendship in Marriage and Parenthood
- Lesson 1: Nurturing connection through new roles
- Lesson 2: Making space for emotional support
- Lesson 3: Not losing yourself in your duties
Unit 4: Cross-Generational Friendships
- Lesson 1: Elders and youth learning from each other
- Lesson 2: Mentorship and mutual respect
- Lesson 3: Wisdom, stories, and barakah
Unit 5: Long-Distance and Rekindled Friendships
- Lesson 1: Staying connected from afar
- Lesson 2: Rekindling old friendships with sincerity
- Lesson 3: Letting people come back into your life

Module 6: Friendship and the Hereafter

Unit 1: Reuniting in Jannah
- Lesson 1: Friends who pull each other to Paradise
- Lesson 2: Du’a for friendship in the next life
- Lesson 3: Spiritual goals as a bond
Unit 2: Friends That Will Test You
- Lesson 1: When they pull you from your values
- Lesson 2: Standing firm with kindness
- Lesson 3: Detaching with wisdom
Unit 3: Praying for Friends
- Lesson 1: Making du’a in their absence
- Lesson 2: Including them in your istikharah
- Lesson 3: Prayers that deepen bonds
Unit 4: Leaving a Legacy of Friendship
- Lesson 1: Being remembered for your kindness
- Lesson 2: Supporting your friends’ children or family
- Lesson 3: Continuing loyalty after they pass
Unit 5: The Prophet ﷺ as the Best of Friends
- Lesson 1: His loyalty, laughter, and love
- Lesson 2: How he uplifted his companions
- Lesson 3: Emulating his friendship in our lives

Level 5: Family Ties and the Circle of Kinship

Introduction:

Family relationships are among the most emphasized in Islam—so much so that maintaining them is an act of worship, and severing them is a major sin. The Prophet ﷺ said, “Whoever severs the ties of kinship will not enter Paradise.”

This level focuses on honoring, maintaining, and healing family ties, even when they are challenging. Islam acknowledges the complexity of families, but still calls believers to uphold connection, show mercy, and act with ihsan (excellence). From parents and siblings to distant relatives, students will explore the rights, roles, and emotional intelligence needed to navigate kinship with sincerity and wisdom.

By the end of this level, students will understand that family bonds are sacred trusts from Allah, meant to be protected with love, patience, and dignity.

Level 5: Family Ties and the Circle of Kinship

Module 1: The Sacredness of Kinship in Islam

Unit 1: What Is Silat ar-Rahim (Maintaining Ties of Kinship)?
- Lesson 1: The spiritual weight of family bonds
- Lesson 2: Kinship is part of your worship
- Lesson 3: When you maintain family ties, Allah maintains you
Unit 2: The Sin of Severing Ties
- Lesson 1: Breaking ties without valid reason
- Lesson 2: “Will not enter Paradise…” – understanding the warning
- Lesson 3: Seeking repair instead of revenge
Unit 3: Reward for Upholding Family Bonds
- Lesson 1: Barakah in your life and rizq
- Lesson 2: Allah draws near to those who keep ties
- Lesson 3: The example of the Prophet ﷺ
Unit 4: Who Counts as Kin in Islam?
- Lesson 1: Understanding the family circle
- Lesson 2: Parents, siblings, cousins, in-laws, and beyond
- Lesson 3: Treating distant family with ihsan
Unit 5: Du’a and Intention for Family Ties
- Lesson 1: Asking Allah to soften hearts
- Lesson 2: Intending every visit and call as ibadah
- Lesson 3: Du’a as a form of emotional repair

Module 2: Honoring Parents

Unit 1: The Command to Honor Parents
- Lesson 1: “Lower to them the wing of humility…”
- Lesson 2: Kindness even in disagreement
- Lesson 3: The beauty of quiet service
Unit 2: What Parental Obedience Really Means
- Lesson 1: Obedience with ihsan, not blind compliance
- Lesson 2: Limits to parental authority in Islam
- Lesson 3: Upholding truth with adab
Unit 3: Emotional Support for Aging Parents
- Lesson 1: Presence and patience in their later years
- Lesson 2: Managing emotions without frustration
- Lesson 3: Treating their dependence with dignity
Unit 4: Dealing With Difficult Parents Islamically
- Lesson 1: When they are emotionally harmful
- Lesson 2: Boundaries with respect
- Lesson 3: Remaining dutiful without enabling
Unit 5: Honoring Parents After They Pass
- Lesson 1: Du’a, sadaqah, and visits
- Lesson 2: Upholding their oaths and friendships
- Lesson 3: Being a continuous source of reward for them

Module 3: Siblings, Cousins, and Extended Family

Unit 1: Brotherhood and Sisterhood in the Family
- Lesson 1: Love and rivalry as natural forces
- Lesson 2: Reconnecting with siblings in adulthood
- Lesson 3: Du’a for siblings’ wellness and growth
Unit 2: Justice and Fairness Between Siblings
- Lesson 1: Avoiding favoritism
- Lesson 2: Encouraging healthy relationships among children
- Lesson 3: Learning from the story of Yusuf عليه السلام
Unit 3: Cousins, Aunts, and Uncles
- Lesson 1: Islamically recognizing their value
- Lesson 2: Staying connected across generations
- Lesson 3: Visits, gifts, and check-ins
Unit 4: Dealing With Family You Barely Know
- Lesson 1: Treating them with warmth and curiosity
- Lesson 2: Avoiding gossip and comparison
- Lesson 3: Welcoming them as part of your deen
Unit 5: Repairing Extended Family Bonds
- Lesson 1: Initiating contact with a clean heart
- Lesson 2: Not waiting for them to “deserve it”
- Lesson 3: Responding to Allah, not your ego

Module 4: Marriage and In-Laws as Family

Unit 1: Marriage as a Merging of Families
- Lesson 1: Respect for your spouse’s relatives
- Lesson 2: Building unity, not comparison
- Lesson 3: Creating a culture of mutual honor
Unit 2: Rights and Boundaries With In-Laws
- Lesson 1: What Islam requires—and what it doesn’t
- Lesson 2: Avoiding unrealistic expectations
- Lesson 3: Speaking kindly, even when saying “no”
Unit 3: Handling Conflict With In-Laws
- Lesson 1: Protecting your marriage without disrespect
- Lesson 2: Being the peacekeeper, not the fire-starter
- Lesson 3: Du’a and diplomacy
Unit 4: Emotional Support for Your Spouse’s Family
- Lesson 1: Visiting when they’re sick or grieving
- Lesson 2: Acts of service and warmth
- Lesson 3: Strengthening trust and goodwill
Unit 5: Treating Spouses With Family-Level Care
- Lesson 1: Spouses are your emotional home
- Lesson 2: Kindness in speech and service
- Lesson 3: Loving them as part of your relationship with Allah

Module 5: Family Gatherings and Interactions

Unit 1: Hosting With Barakah and Boundaries
- Lesson 1: Feeding others as a sunnah
- Lesson 2: Hosting without financial burden or show-off
- Lesson 3: Making everyone feel welcome
Unit 2: Visiting With Adab and Presence
- Lesson 1: Bringing gifts and good news
- Lesson 2: Not overstaying your welcome
- Lesson 3: Making time for personal check-ins
Unit 3: Dealing With Family Drama
- Lesson 1: Staying neutral and emotionally present
- Lesson 2: Avoiding gossip and triangulation
- Lesson 3: Walking away from toxic conversations
Unit 4: Holidays and Family Traditions
- Lesson 1: Celebrating Eid and life events with joy
- Lesson 2: Keeping gatherings halal and inclusive
- Lesson 3: Using holidays to reconnect hearts
Unit 5: Including the Isolated or Forgotten
- Lesson 1: The elderly, single, widowed, or estranged
- Lesson 2: Reaching out beyond the “inner circle”
- Lesson 3: Restoring dignity through inclusion

Module 6: When Family Is Hard to Love

Unit 1: When Family Hurts You
- Lesson 1: What Islam says about enduring hardship
- Lesson 2: Du’a for strength, not bitterness
- Lesson 3: Compassion with boundaries
Unit 2: Forgiveness and Wisdom
- Lesson 1: Forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting
- Lesson 2: Knowing when to reconcile and when to rest
- Lesson 3: Your peace is part of your purpose
Unit 3: Dealing With Abuse and Toxicity
- Lesson 1: Islam does not ask you to be abused
- Lesson 2: Emotional safety as a priority
- Lesson 3: Getting help without guilt
Unit 4: Staying Connected Without Being Controlled
- Lesson 1: Limited contact is still contact
- Lesson 2: Saying no without disrespect
- Lesson 3: Being the bigger person with balance
Unit 5: Praying for Family Healing
- Lesson 1: Du’a when you feel helpless
- Lesson 2: Asking Allah to bring hearts back together
- Lesson 3: Trusting His timing, not just your efforts

Level 6: Navigating Conflict With Grace

Introduction:

Conflict is a natural part of human relationships—but how we respond to it reveals our character and our connection to Allah. Islam doesn’t expect perfection, but it teaches us to handle disagreement with mercy, wisdom, and emotional discipline.

This level focuses on the art of navigating tension, resolving disputes, and maintaining dignity in the face of hurt. From everyday arguments to deep fractures, students will learn Islamic principles and emotional strategies that promote healing instead of harm. The Prophet ﷺ faced conflict often—yet always responded with patience, justice, and grace.

By the end of this level, students will understand that conflict is not something to fear or suppress, but an opportunity to grow in compassion, self-restraint, and spiritual maturity.

Module 1: Understanding Conflict Through an Islamic Lens

Unit 1: Conflict Is a Test, Not a Failure
- Lesson 1: Every relationship will be tested
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ and conflict resolution
- Lesson 3: Viewing conflict as a chance for growth
Unit 2: Emotional Triggers and Self-Awareness
- Lesson 1: Recognizing your own hot buttons
- Lesson 2: Regulating emotions before reacting
- Lesson 3: When to speak, when to pause
Unit 3: Ego and the Need to Be Right
- Lesson 1: Surrendering pride for peace
- Lesson 2: Winning hearts vs. winning arguments
- Lesson 3: The virtue of letting go
Unit 4: “Respond With That Which Is Better”
- Lesson 1: Qur’anic instruction on kindness during tension
- Lesson 2: The power of tone, not just words
- Lesson 3: Soft responses that disarm anger
Unit 5: When Conflict Isn’t Resolved Quickly
- Lesson 1: Holding space for unresolved issues
- Lesson 2: Patience in long-term healing
- Lesson 3: Trusting Allah’s justice and timing

Module 2: Communication During Disagreement

Unit 1: Speaking With Ihsan and Adab
- Lesson 1: Clear, calm, and respectful speech
- Lesson 2: Avoiding blame and harshness
- Lesson 3: The Prophet ﷺ never spoke to hurt
Unit 2: Active Listening as a Mercy
- Lesson 1: Hearing to understand, not to respond
- Lesson 2: Reflective listening techniques
- Lesson 3: Making the other person feel heard
Unit 3: Body Language and Presence
- Lesson 1: Staying physically calm to model peace
- Lesson 2: Open posture and soft eye contact
- Lesson 3: Avoiding intimidating or dismissive gestures
Unit 4: Avoiding Passive Aggression and Silence
- Lesson 1: Choosing honesty over resentment
- Lesson 2: Silence that heals vs. silence that punishes
- Lesson 3: Expressing needs without guilt
Unit 5: Repairing Miscommunication
- Lesson 1: Clarifying misunderstandings gently
- Lesson 2: “That’s not what I meant…”
- Lesson 3: Giving others the benefit of the doubt

Module 3: Conflict Within Close Relationships

Unit 1: Family Arguments With Compassion
- Lesson 1: Emotional tension without emotional harm
- Lesson 2: Honoring parents even in disagreement
- Lesson 3: Talking with—not at—your loved ones
Unit 2: Conflict in Marriage
- Lesson 1: Fighting fair with faith and maturity
- Lesson 2: How the Prophet ﷺ modeled disagreement
- Lesson 3: Taking breaks to reset before harm is done
Unit 3: Sibling and Relative Disputes
- Lesson 1: Revisiting the story of Yusuf عليه السلام
- Lesson 2: Repairing with humility
- Lesson 3: Setting boundaries while staying connected
Unit 4: Friendship and Emotional Distance
- Lesson 1: When friends disappoint you
- Lesson 2: Apologizing and forgiving with sincerity
- Lesson 3: Letting go without malice
Unit 5: Community and Masjid Disagreements
- Lesson 1: Choosing the ummah over ego
- Lesson 2: Holding leadership and members accountable respectfully
- Lesson 3: Not turning conflict into division

Module 4: Forgiveness and Reconciliation

Unit 1: The Power of Forgiveness in Islam
- Lesson 1: “Do you not love that Allah should forgive you?”
- Lesson 2: Forgiveness as liberation, not weakness
- Lesson 3: Forgiving for Allah, even if they don’t apologize
Unit 2: When Forgiveness Is Hard
- Lesson 1: Validating the pain while letting go of the weight
- Lesson 2: Taking your time without hardening your heart
- Lesson 3: Making du’a for the strength to release it
Unit 3: Seeking Forgiveness With Sincerity
- Lesson 1: Owning harm and apologizing properly
- Lesson 2: Not defending your mistake
- Lesson 3: Letting actions speak louder than words
Unit 4: Reconciliation After Conflict
- Lesson 1: Signs it’s time to reconnect
- Lesson 2: Setting new agreements and expectations
- Lesson 3: Rebuilding trust slowly and sincerely
Unit 5: When Reconciliation Isn’t Possible
- Lesson 1: Choosing peace over reattachment
- Lesson 2: Du’a for them from a distance
- Lesson 3: Ending with dignity, not drama

Module 5: Justice, Boundaries, and Emotional Safety

Unit 1: Conflict With Oppressors or Abusers
- Lesson 1: Islam commands justice, not silence
- Lesson 2: Standing up without stooping low
- Lesson 3: Seeking help is not betrayal
Unit 2: When to Involve a Third Party
- Lesson 1: Mediation through a neutral party
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ’s approach to resolving disputes
- Lesson 3: Choosing someone with hikmah and fairness
Unit 3: Setting and Holding Boundaries
- Lesson 1: Your peace is also a trust from Allah
- Lesson 2: Healthy distance without anger
- Lesson 3: Boundaries with love, not punishment
Unit 4: Choosing Not to Retaliate
- Lesson 1: “Repel evil with that which is better…”
- Lesson 2: Choosing reward over revenge
- Lesson 3: Leaving it to Allah when you’ve done your part
Unit 5: Accountability Without Harshness
- Lesson 1: Correcting others without cruelty
- Lesson 2: Nurturing change through kindness
- Lesson 3: Knowing when to walk away

Module 6: Du’a, Growth, and Moving Forward

Unit 1: Du’a Before, During, and After Conflict
- Lesson 1: “O Allah, soften their heart and mine…”
- Lesson 2: Prayers to protect your tongue and temper
- Lesson 3: Asking for guidance in complex situations
Unit 2: Personal Growth Through Conflict
- Lesson 1: What did this disagreement teach you?
- Lesson 2: Not repeating the same mistakes
- Lesson 3: Becoming wiser, not harder
Unit 3: Journaling Conflict and Resolution
- Lesson 1: Writing to clarify your emotions
- Lesson 2: Tracking how you responded
- Lesson 3: Setting intentions for the future
Unit 4: Teaching Conflict Resolution to Youth
- Lesson 1: Modeling calm during disagreements
- Lesson 2: Giving children the words to express themselves
- Lesson 3: “Say it like the Prophet ﷺ would say it”
Unit 5: Carrying Grace Into Future Challenges
- Lesson 1: Staying calm when tested
- Lesson 2: Using conflict to deepen, not damage, relationships
- Lesson 3: Letting grace become your reflex

Level 7: Boundaries, Privacy, and Personal Space 

Introduction:

In a religion that honors the soul, Islam also honors space. Whether physical, emotional, or spiritual—boundaries are not barriers; they are bridges to healthier relationships. Islam teaches us to respect one another’s privacy, personal needs, and emotional limits with deep compassion and care.

This level explores how the Prophet ﷺ and the Qur’an emphasize the importance of knocking before entering, not spying, not prying into others’ lives, and allowing people room to breathe. It also helps students recognize when and how to set their own boundaries without guilt.

By the end of this level, students will understand that true closeness is not about constant access—but about consistent respect.

Module 1: The Islamic Value of Privacy

Unit 1: Privacy as a Right in Islam
- Lesson 1: “Do not spy…” – a clear command
- Lesson 2: Personal space is sacred
- Lesson 3: Respecting what others choose not to share
Unit 2: The Sunnah of Knocking and Permission
- Lesson 1: Knock three times and wait
- Lesson 2: Seeking permission before entering a room or home
- Lesson 3: The etiquette of indoor spaces
Unit 3: Not Entering Without Being Invited
- Lesson 1: Unannounced visits and their impact
- Lesson 2: Giving people the freedom to decline
- Lesson 3: Being mindful of others’ time and space
Unit 4: Digital Privacy and Respect
- Lesson 1: Not reading others’ messages or emails
- Lesson 2: Seeking consent before sharing photos or content
- Lesson 3: Avoiding surveillance and secretive monitoring
Unit 5: Not Forcing Vulnerability
- Lesson 1: You don’t need to know everything
- Lesson 2: Letting people open up at their own pace
- Lesson 3: Listening without interrogating

Module 2: Setting Healthy Boundaries

Unit 1: What Are Boundaries?
- Lesson 1: Defining emotional, physical, and time boundaries
- Lesson 2: Boundaries as compassion, not rejection
- Lesson 3: Islam supports protective limits
Unit 2: Giving Yourself Permission to Set Limits
- Lesson 1: You don’t need to justify self-care
- Lesson 2: Saying no with kindness and clarity
- Lesson 3: Respecting your own energy and time
Unit 3: How the Prophet ﷺ Modeled Boundaries
- Lesson 1: His quiet time, retreat, and focus
- Lesson 2: When he corrected companions gently
- Lesson 3: His balance between access and presence
Unit 4: Boundary Violations in Close Relationships
- Lesson 1: When love is used to guilt or control
- Lesson 2: Repeated disrespect is not mercy
- Lesson 3: Clear communication as a sunnah
Unit 5: Holding Boundaries With Ihsan
- Lesson 1: Firm but gentle reminders
- Lesson 2: Repeating limits without anger
- Lesson 3: Making du’a for strength and grace

Module 3: Respecting Others’ Space

Unit 1: Space in the Home
- Lesson 1: Knock before entering—even within your family
- Lesson 2: Private rooms and closed doors in Islam
- Lesson 3: Giving children and parents space
Unit 2: Space in Conversations
- Lesson 1: Don’t pressure for emotional sharing
- Lesson 2: Watch for discomfort and pull back
- Lesson 3: Create safe spaces, not forced vulnerability
Unit 3: Space in Friendship
- Lesson 1: Let friends recharge without taking it personally
- Lesson 2: Not everyone processes things the same way
- Lesson 3: Love doesn’t mean constant contact
Unit 4: Boundaries With Strangers and Acquaintances
- Lesson 1: Not asking intrusive questions
- Lesson 2: Respecting cultural and personal differences
- Lesson 3: Giving people the right to their bubble
Unit 5: Space During Stress and Conflict
- Lesson 1: Allowing others room to cool off
- Lesson 2: Not demanding immediate resolution
- Lesson 3: Du’a while giving time and space

Module 4: Digital Boundaries and Online Etiquette

Unit 1: Online Doesn’t Mean Unlimited
- Lesson 1: Respecting people’s response time
- Lesson 2: Not expecting constant access
- Lesson 3: “Seen” does not mean ignored
Unit 2: Asking Permission Before Sharing
- Lesson 1: Photos, videos, quotes—get consent first
- Lesson 2: Private moments are not public content
- Lesson 3: Digital amanah
Unit 3: Avoiding Emotional Oversharing
- Lesson 1: The difference between honesty and overload
- Lesson 2: Knowing your audience
- Lesson 3: When to post, and when to pause
Unit 4: Group Chats and Messaging Boundaries
- Lesson 1: Respecting silence
- Lesson 2: Not flooding with messages or demands
- Lesson 3: Knowing when to leave or mute respectfully
Unit 5: Digital Boundaries With the Opposite Gender
- Lesson 1: Keeping it public, purposeful, and professional
- Lesson 2: Islam’s safeguards apply online too
- Lesson 3: “Lower your gaze” includes digital spaces

Module 5: Teaching Boundaries to Others

Unit 1: Talking About Boundaries Openly
- Lesson 1: “Here’s what I’m comfortable with…”
- Lesson 2: Language that’s clear but gentle
- Lesson 3: Practicing assertiveness without fear
Unit 2: Teaching Children and Youth About Privacy
- Lesson 1: Body boundaries and emotional space
- Lesson 2: Respecting their voice and teaching respect in return
- Lesson 3: Boundaries as part of Islamic character
Unit 3: Educating Through Example
- Lesson 1: Model healthy limits and permissions
- Lesson 2: Showing others it’s okay to say no
- Lesson 3: Creating a boundary-respecting culture
Unit 4: Community Norms Around Space and Respect
- Lesson 1: Mosque etiquette and modest interaction
- Lesson 2: Welcoming without overwhelming
- Lesson 3: Accessibility and comfort for all
Unit 5: When Boundaries Are Not Respected
- Lesson 1: Reaffirming limits firmly
- Lesson 2: Escalating when necessary (e.g. to leaders or counselors)
- Lesson 3: Prioritizing emotional and spiritual safety

Module 6: Boundaries and Spiritual Growth

Unit 1: Boundaries to Protect Your Iman
- Lesson 1: Saying no to distractions or temptations
- Lesson 2: Protecting your heart from unhealthy exposure
- Lesson 3: Choosing company that uplifts, not drains
Unit 2: Creating Personal Spiritual Space
- Lesson 1: Scheduling alone time for du’a, dhikr, and reflection
- Lesson 2: Protecting your salah from social interruption
- Lesson 3: Quiet time is sunnah
Unit 3: Boundaries in Worship Environments
- Lesson 1: Respecting personal prayer space
- Lesson 2: Not disturbing others in salah or learning
- Lesson 3: Masjid etiquette and sacred quiet
Unit 4: Du’a for Emotional Boundaries
- Lesson 1: “O Allah, protect my peace”
- Lesson 2: Asking for strength to uphold limits
- Lesson 3: Seeking courage to speak up gently
Unit 5: Finding Peace in Balance
- Lesson 1: Boundaries that protect love
- Lesson 2: Space that strengthens connection
- Lesson 3: Letting peace flow between people through mutual respect

Level 8: Neighborly and Community Relationships

Introduction:

Islam teaches that community care is not a bonus—it’s a core part of faith. The Prophet ﷺ emphasized the rights of neighbors so much that he said, “I thought they would be made heirs.” Being part of a Muslim community means showing up, giving back, and treating those around you with dignity and concern.

This level focuses on the rights of neighbors, how to be a person of value in your local community, and how to support, serve, and include others. From simple greetings to emergency assistance, Islam guides us to create communities that feel like home.

By the end of this level, students will understand that being a good Muslim includes being a good neighbor, a reliable volunteer, and a source of healing in the spaces you live and pray in.

Module 1: The Rights of Neighbors in Islam

Unit 1: The Prophetic Emphasis on Neighbors
- Lesson 1: “Jibreel kept advising me about the neighbor…”
- Lesson 2: Neighbors in the Qur’an and Sunnah
- Lesson 3: Who counts as a neighbor in Islam?
Unit 2: Basic Neighborly Duties
- Lesson 1: Greeting, smiling, and checking in
- Lesson 2: Helping in times of need
- Lesson 3: Sharing food and joy
Unit 3: Avoiding Harm to Neighbors
- Lesson 1: Noise, trash, and parking—Islamic etiquette
- Lesson 2: Emotional harm through gossip or hostility
- Lesson 3: Rights of non-Muslim neighbors
Unit 4: Being a Source of Goodness
- Lesson 1: Making neighbors feel safe and respected
- Lesson 2: Being the first to offer help
- Lesson 3: Quiet service that earns big reward
Unit 5: When Conflict With Neighbors Arises
- Lesson 1: Addressing issues respectfully
- Lesson 2: Seeking peace, not dominance
- Lesson 3: Making du’a for good neighborly ties

Module 2: Building Strong Community Bonds

Unit 1: The Masjid as a Community Hub
- Lesson 1: The Prophet’s ﷺ masjid as a center of life
- Lesson 2: Welcoming all ages and backgrounds
- Lesson 3: Being active in masjid life
Unit 2: Community Starts With Salaam
- Lesson 1: Spreading peace through greetings
- Lesson 2: The sunnah of initiating salaam
- Lesson 3: Greeting strangers with respect
Unit 3: Hosting and Attending Gatherings
- Lesson 1: Accepting invitations and showing up
- Lesson 2: Respecting hosts and guests
- Lesson 3: Creating a spirit of joy and belonging
Unit 4: Supporting the Vulnerable in Your Community
- Lesson 1: Elderly, disabled, sick, converts, single parents
- Lesson 2: Visiting and checking in with sincerity
- Lesson 3: Including everyone at the table
Unit 5: Avoiding Cliques and Exclusion
- Lesson 1: Islam is for all—not just your group
- Lesson 2: Not ignoring new faces or outsiders
- Lesson 3: Building welcoming habits

Module 3: Volunteering and Service

Unit 1: The Spirit of Volunteering in Islam
- Lesson 1: Serving others for the sake of Allah
- Lesson 2: Even small tasks earn great reward
- Lesson 3: Quiet workers are beloved by Allah
Unit 2: Finding Your Role in the Community
- Lesson 1: Not everyone leads—but everyone contributes
- Lesson 2: Discovering what you can offer
- Lesson 3: Du’a for barakah in service
Unit 3: Working With Teams and Committees
- Lesson 1: Collaborating with adab
- Lesson 2: Navigating disagreements with unity
- Lesson 3: Keeping ego out of the work
Unit 4: Avoiding Burnout and Overcommitment
- Lesson 1: Serving without neglecting yourself
- Lesson 2: Knowing when to pause
- Lesson 3: Volunteering with balance and ihsan
Unit 5: Serving With Intention and Integrity
- Lesson 1: Renewing niyyah (intention) in every task
- Lesson 2: Doing it for Allah, not applause
- Lesson 3: Leading with humility

Module 4: Supporting in Times of Need

Unit 1: Helping During Illness
- Lesson 1: Visiting the sick as a sunnah
- Lesson 2: Offering prayer, food, and presence
- Lesson 3: Making du’a and bringing comfort
Unit 2: Comforting After Loss
- Lesson 1: Attending janazah and offering condolences
- Lesson 2: Listening without judgment
- Lesson 3: Being there after everyone else leaves
Unit 3: Helping During Hardship
- Lesson 1: Financial support without shame
- Lesson 2: Providing meals, transportation, or child care
- Lesson 3: Discreet giving with dignity
Unit 4: Community Emergency Response
- Lesson 1: When disaster strikes—who steps up?
- Lesson 2: Mobilizing as an ummah
- Lesson 3: Collective du’a and coordinated support
Unit 5: Making Help Sustainable
- Lesson 1: Beyond one-time charity
- Lesson 2: Mentoring, job help, tutoring
- Lesson 3: Empowerment over dependency

Module 5: Community Etiquette and Unity

Unit 1: Respecting Elders and Leaders
- Lesson 1: Standing, greeting, and listening with care
- Lesson 2: Giving elders the space to teach
- Lesson 3: Honoring knowledge and experience
Unit 2: Giving the Youth Their Voice
- Lesson 1: Including young people in decisions
- Lesson 2: Listening and validating their experience
- Lesson 3: Mentorship and encouragement
Unit 3: Public Spaces With Adab
- Lesson 1: Masjid cleanliness and calm
- Lesson 2: Respecting shared spaces and quiet zones
- Lesson 3: Being mindful of behavior in gatherings
Unit 4: Avoiding Gossip and Division
- Lesson 1: How rumors destroy trust
- Lesson 2: Speaking with care and purpose
- Lesson 3: Being a unifier, not a divider
Unit 5: Maintaining Unity Amid Differences
- Lesson 1: Respecting valid disagreements
- Lesson 2: Not letting opinions split hearts
- Lesson 3: Focusing on shared goals

Module 6: Being a Community Builder

Unit 1: The Reward of Community Builders
- Lesson 1: “The most beloved people are those most beneficial…”
- Lesson 2: Building systems of care and support
- Lesson 3: Jannah for those who create safe spaces
Unit 2: Seeing What Others Need
- Lesson 1: Emotional intelligence in service
- Lesson 2: Listening to the silent struggles
- Lesson 3: Proactive kindness
Unit 3: Initiating Good Deeds Locally
- Lesson 1: Starting food drives, cleanups, check-in groups
- Lesson 2: Making good ideas real
- Lesson 3: Organizing with sincerity
Unit 4: Du’a for the Community
- Lesson 1: Praying for your neighbors
- Lesson 2: Making du’a during hardship or growth
- Lesson 3: Du’a as invisible service
Unit 5: Becoming Known for Mercy
- Lesson 1: A gentle presence that people trust
- Lesson 2: Your name associated with rahmah
- Lesson 3: Leaving a legacy of love

Level 9: Relationships in the Digital Age

Introduction:

Our screens may be digital, but our hearts are still real—and so is our accountability. In today’s world, relationships often begin, grow, or break online. Islam teaches us that adab, sincerity, and empathy must follow us into our texts, posts, group chats, and private messages.

This level explores the unique challenges and responsibilities of relationships in the digital world: from respectful messaging and online friendships to boundaries in group chats and dealing with online conflict. Just because something is behind a screen doesn’t mean it’s beyond Allah’s sight.

By the end of this level, students will understand that digital spaces are part of their spiritual footprint, and that online relationships deserve the same care, adab, and intention as in-person ones.

Module 1: Digital Spaces With Islamic Adab

Unit 1: Allah Sees Everything—Online Too
- Lesson 1: There is no “private” without Allah
- Lesson 2: Writing with taqwa as if speaking in public
- Lesson 3: The angels record our digital behavior
Unit 2: The Sunnah of Online Interaction
- Lesson 1: Starting messages with salaam
- Lesson 2: Respectful tone and word choice
- Lesson 3: Avoiding sarcasm, mockery, or rudeness
Unit 3: Online Manners Reflect Your Faith
- Lesson 1: Politeness in emails, comments, and messages
- Lesson 2: Respecting time and boundaries in replies
- Lesson 3: “Seen” does not mean disrespect
Unit 4: Being Mindful of Emotional Tone
- Lesson 1: Texting can lack context—assume good
- Lesson 2: Using emojis or punctuation for clarity
- Lesson 3: Asking for clarification before reacting
Unit 5: Intentional Presence in Online Spaces
- Lesson 1: Don’t message just to vent or demand
- Lesson 2: Use online time for benefit, not boredom
- Lesson 3: Remember Allah while you scroll

Module 2: Social Media With Integrity

Unit 1: What Are You Posting, and Why?
- Lesson 1: The niyyah behind every post
- Lesson 2: Attention-seeking vs. intention-sharing
- Lesson 3: Avoiding the need for validation
Unit 2: Modesty in the Digital World
- Lesson 1: Physical and emotional modesty
- Lesson 2: Dressing, speaking, and acting with haya—even online
- Lesson 3: Flirtation, overexposure, and boundaries
Unit 3: Watching vs. Posting
- Lesson 1: Avoiding envy and comparison
- Lesson 2: What you consume shapes your heart
- Lesson 3: Curating your digital environment
Unit 4: Followers, Fame, and Spiritual Risk
- Lesson 1: Being “seen” is not the same as being sincere
- Lesson 2: Sharing da’wah without arrogance
- Lesson 3: Staying humble as your audience grows
Unit 5: Islam Online Is Still Islam
- Lesson 1: Upholding truth and manners in comments
- Lesson 2: Avoiding online debates without benefit
- Lesson 3: Bringing barakah into your digital footprint

Module 3: Communication Boundaries

Unit 1: Private Messaging With Care
- Lesson 1: Keeping communication purposeful
- Lesson 2: Setting tone and timing expectations
- Lesson 3: Avoiding unnecessary gendered interaction
Unit 2: Group Chats and Digital Adab
- Lesson 1: Avoiding spamming and derailing conversations
- Lesson 2: Respecting others’ silence or exit
- Lesson 3: Being mindful of who’s included
Unit 3: Consent in Communication
- Lesson 1: Don’t assume comfort with messaging
- Lesson 2: Respecting “no response” as an answer
- Lesson 3: Not pressuring others for emotional access
Unit 4: Blocking, Muting, and Filtering
- Lesson 1: These are boundaries, not betrayal
- Lesson 2: Emotional safety matters—even online
- Lesson 3: Moving on with peace, not drama
Unit 5: When Digital Access Becomes a Burden
- Lesson 1: You’re allowed to take breaks
- Lesson 2: JOMO: The joy of missing out
- Lesson 3: Detaching for your spiritual well-being

Module 4: Conflict, Gossip, and Harm Online

Unit 1: Backbiting and Slander Go Digital
- Lesson 1: Public posts count as speech
- Lesson 2: Gossip in DMs and group chats
- Lesson 3: The weight of “subtle” backbiting
Unit 2: Passive Aggression and Public Call-Outs
- Lesson 1: When online correction becomes humiliation
- Lesson 2: Correcting with wisdom and du’a
- Lesson 3: When to message privately instead
Unit 3: Cyberbullying and Emotional Harm
- Lesson 1: Verbal violence through screens
- Lesson 2: Islam’s strong stance against harm
- Lesson 3: Seeking justice without vengeance
Unit 4: Online Conflict Resolution
- Lesson 1: Pausing before responding
- Lesson 2: Apologizing digitally with sincerity
- Lesson 3: Walking away instead of escalating
Unit 5: Healing From Online Harm
- Lesson 1: When comments or posts break your heart
- Lesson 2: Making du’a for peace and protection
- Lesson 3: Talking to someone offline when needed

Module 5: Digital Friendships and Relationships

Unit 1: Online Friends—Real or Not?
- Lesson 1: The beauty of distant connection
- Lesson 2: Recognizing red flags
- Lesson 3: Being authentic without overexposing
Unit 2: Supporting Without Overstepping
- Lesson 1: You’re not their therapist or savior
- Lesson 2: Sharing resources and du’a
- Lesson 3: Knowing your own limits
Unit 3: Gender Interaction Online
- Lesson 1: Public, purposeful, and professional
- Lesson 2: When joking crosses a line
- Lesson 3: Lowering the digital gaze
Unit 4: Long-Distance Islamic Bonds
- Lesson 1: Sisterhood and brotherhood beyond borders
- Lesson 2: Building trust slowly and securely
- Lesson 3: Remembering Allah together
Unit 5: Ending Digital Connections With Dignity
- Lesson 1: Quiet exits, no need for drama
- Lesson 2: Blocking without anger
- Lesson 3: Making du’a and moving on

Module 6: Tech-Life Balance and Barakah

Unit 1: Are You Scrolling or Living?
- Lesson 1: Time as a trust from Allah
- Lesson 2: How tech affects salah, focus, and heart
- Lesson 3: Logging off to log into life
Unit 2: Tech Habits for Barakah
- Lesson 1: Replacing idle use with intentional goals
- Lesson 2: Apps and reminders that uplift
- Lesson 3: Scheduling screen-free spiritual time
Unit 3: Creating a Spiritually Safe Online Space
- Lesson 1: What you follow, you feed on
- Lesson 2: Curating who and what you allow in
- Lesson 3: Digital friendships that nourish your deen
Unit 4: Family and Tech Boundaries
- Lesson 1: Parents, children, and screen expectations
- Lesson 2: Shared guidelines and agreements
- Lesson 3: Reconnecting offline
Unit 5: Making Du’a for Your Digital Life
- Lesson 1: “O Allah, protect me from digital harm…”
- Lesson 2: Seeking forgiveness for online mistakes
- Lesson 3: Intending khayr with every interaction

Level 10: Becoming a Socially Responsible Muslim

Introduction:

A righteous Muslim isn’t just good in private—they’re a force of goodness in society. Islam teaches us to live with purpose, compassion, and responsibility toward the people around us. Being socially responsible means honoring others’ rights, contributing positively to your environment, and standing for justice with mercy.

This final level brings together everything learned in previous levels—trust, boundaries, empathy, conflict resolution, and service—into a holistic vision of how a Muslim builds and sustains strong, ethical, faith-driven relationships in every role they hold.

By the end of this level, students will understand that social excellence (husnul mu’āsharah) is part of spiritual excellence, and that their behavior with others is a daily act of da’wah, mercy, and worship.

Module 1: Living With Social Excellence (Husnul Mu’āsharah)

Unit 1: What Is Social Excellence in Islam?
- Lesson 1: Ihsan in how you treat others
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ as the model of interaction
- Lesson 3: Consistency between private piety and public character
Unit 2: Walking Through the World With Mercy
- Lesson 1: Carrying rahmah into every space
- Lesson 2: Being a softener of hearts
- Lesson 3: A smile, a greeting, a presence of peace
Unit 3: Making Others Feel Seen and Valued
- Lesson 1: Learning people’s names and stories
- Lesson 2: Asking how they’re doing—and meaning it
- Lesson 3: Centering the lonely, the quiet, and the new
Unit 4: The Barakah of Emotional Intelligence
- Lesson 1: Reading the room with wisdom
- Lesson 2: Adjusting your tone and timing
- Lesson 3: Emotional maturity as spiritual strength
Unit 5: When Social Excellence Is Tested
- Lesson 1: Maintaining grace when others don’t
- Lesson 2: Holding boundaries with ihsan
- Lesson 3: Staying true to your akhlaq in conflict

Module 2: Serving the Ummah With Purpose

Unit 1: Every Muslim Is a Contributor
- Lesson 1: You don’t need a title to serve
- Lesson 2: From carrying chairs to carrying hearts
- Lesson 3: Allah sees even the unnoticed efforts
Unit 2: Finding Your Place in the Community
- Lesson 1: Identifying your strengths and passions
- Lesson 2: Being reliable, not flashy
- Lesson 3: Working with people, not over them
Unit 3: Activism With Adab
- Lesson 1: Standing up for justice without losing character
- Lesson 2: Speaking truth to power with prophetic dignity
- Lesson 3: Making du’a part of the mission
Unit 4: Supporting the Most Vulnerable
- Lesson 1: Disabled, elderly, converts, and overlooked members
- Lesson 2: Creating safe and welcoming spaces
- Lesson 3: Offering help without condescension
Unit 5: Sincerity in Service
- Lesson 1: Serving for Allah, not applause
- Lesson 2: Private acts of goodness
- Lesson 3: Letting your legacy be love

Module 3: Being a Good Citizen and Neighbor

Unit 1: The Muslim as a Source of Peace
- Lesson 1: Your presence should comfort, not disturb
- Lesson 2: Cleanliness, quietness, and kindness
- Lesson 3: Non-Muslim neighbors have rights too
Unit 2: Civic Responsibility and Islamic Ethics
- Lesson 1: Participating in local society with integrity
- Lesson 2: Voting, volunteering, and working with purpose
- Lesson 3: Avoiding injustice wherever it appears
Unit 3: Environmental and Social Awareness
- Lesson 1: Islam and care for the earth
- Lesson 2: Waste, pollution, and prophetic responsibility
- Lesson 3: Teaching others through action
Unit 4: Working and Leading With Integrity
- Lesson 1: Being known for honesty and reliability
- Lesson 2: Fairness with coworkers and staff
- Lesson 3: Islam in the workplace
Unit 5: Representing Islam Through Behavior
- Lesson 1: Your adab is da’wah
- Lesson 2: Being kind without compromising values
- Lesson 3: Living Islam out loud—with humility

Module 4: Developing Emotional Leadership

Unit 1: What Is Emotional Leadership?
- Lesson 1: Leading with heart, not just head
- Lesson 2: The Prophet ﷺ as an emotional guide
- Lesson 3: You don’t need a mic to be a leader
Unit 2: Listening Before Leading
- Lesson 1: Understanding others before offering solutions
- Lesson 2: Building trust through listening
- Lesson 3: Slowing down to show care
Unit 3: Holding Others With Gentleness
- Lesson 1: Correcting without crushing
- Lesson 2: Believing in people’s potential
- Lesson 3: Balancing firmness and compassion
Unit 4: Encouraging Through Kindness
- Lesson 1: Giving sincere praise
- Lesson 2: Uplifting others publicly and privately
- Lesson 3: Motivating without manipulation
Unit 5: Passing the Torch With Ihsan
- Lesson 1: Mentoring and supporting the next generation
- Lesson 2: Sharing resources and wisdom
- Lesson 3: Du’a for those who will carry the work forward

Module 5: Da’wah Through Relationship

Unit 1: The Prophet’s ﷺ Da’wah Through Character
- Lesson 1: Winning hearts before minds
- Lesson 2: His treatment of enemies and strangers
- Lesson 3: Mercy as the greatest teacher
Unit 2: Building Trust Before Teaching
- Lesson 1: Da’wah is earned, not imposed
- Lesson 2: Relationships are the soil for da’wah to grow
- Lesson 3: Being known for honesty, not judgment
Unit 3: Gentle Truth in Tough Conversations
- Lesson 1: Sharing Islam with humility
- Lesson 2: Answering with patience, not pride
- Lesson 3: Making room for questions and doubt
Unit 4: Helping People Feel Seen and Loved
- Lesson 1: Many accept Islam through warmth, not debate
- Lesson 2: Making people feel like they belong
- Lesson 3: Connecting before correcting
Unit 5: Letting Your Relationships Reflect Islam
- Lesson 1: “You’re different—in a good way”
- Lesson 2: Da’wah through consistency and sincerity
- Lesson 3: Trusting Allah to guide hearts

Module 6: Sustaining a Life of Social Excellence

Unit 1: Du’a for Relationships and Social Growth
- Lesson 1: “O Allah, let me be a source of peace…”
- Lesson 2: Praying for wisdom and balance
- Lesson 3: Du’a for those you serve
Unit 2: Personal Reflection and Renewal
- Lesson 1: Journaling social interactions
- Lesson 2: What you did well—and where to grow
- Lesson 3: Making character a lifelong project
Unit 3: Protecting Yourself From Burnout
- Lesson 1: You can’t pour from an empty cup
- Lesson 2: Serving with boundaries
- Lesson 3: Recharging as a spiritual act
Unit 4: Teaching Others by Example
- Lesson 1: Let your actions teach more than your words
- Lesson 2: Being someone people feel safe around
- Lesson 3: Leading quietly, loving loudly
Unit 5: Leaving a Legacy of Compassion
- Lesson 1: How will people feel when they remember you?
- Lesson 2: Writing your story through kindness
- Lesson 3: “When I met them, I felt closer to Allah”

Completion

Course Completion – Social Relationships in Islam

Section: Character & Ethics
Structure: 10 Levels | 60 Modules | 300 Units | ~900 Lessons

Final Reflection: Worship Through Connection

From the first salaam to the last farewell, Islam teaches us that how we treat people is how we treat our deen. This course took you on a journey through relationships of all kinds—parents, friends, spouses, strangers, neighbors, coworkers, and communities—each one offering a unique chance to draw closer to Allah.

You’ve learned that relationships aren’t distractions from faith—they are proof of it. Every act of mercy, every boundary kept with wisdom, every moment of forgiveness, every emotional sacrifice made for the sake of harmony—it all counts with Allah.

You now carry the tools, the mindset, and the spiritual awareness to build bonds that are grounded in love, guided by mercy, and sealed with taqwa.

Key Lessons to Carry Forward

Good character is the weightiest deed on the scale.
People’s rights (huqooq al-‘ibad) matter as much as Allah’s rights.
Boundaries protect love, not prevent it.
Conflict is a chance to rise, not just react.
The best Muslims are those who bring peace and benefit to others.

Reflection Questions

Which relationship in your life has changed most through this course?
What is one new habit or adab you want to commit to?
How will you teach or model this knowledge for others?

Completion Du’a

اللهماجعلنامنالذينإذااختلطوابالبشرزادوافيحسنالخلق،وإذاغابواذُكروابالخير،وإذاماتواافتقدوابالرحمة.
O Allah, make us among those who, when they interact with others, increase in beautiful character; when they are absent, they are remembered with goodness; and when they pass, they are missed with mercy.

Your Journey Continues…

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